Aline Ekeland

Beliefs are conditioned perceptions that are built on old memories of pain and pleasure. These memories are based on how we interpret our experiences throughout life. By attaching ourselves emotionally to people, events or circumstances, we effectively build the foundations of our belief systems.

Our beliefs are NOT facts. They can be confused with facts, because they are conclusions that we draw based on the experiences we had in our own childhood, but in adulthood they can and often become obstacles, because they are no longer compatible with the circumstances of the life you live and you end up feeling stuck in the language patterns of the past that were taught to you for sure.

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Limiting Beliefs emerge as our biggest challenges. Would you like a simple example? When we come across the world around us and realize that we are not open enough to face certain situations reacting defensively. This is one of the first signs of our limiting beliefs influencing our decisions. Saying automatically NO to the new, to the unknown, clearly demonstrates the resistance of our unconscious to the new, because that belief that was already ingrained, that was previously imposed and built over so many years in your mind now will not want to be questioned, because if he feels “comfortable” living the same way he did, and now he won't want to have to make the effort to change and adapt.

But and now? What if I don't need to change? What will my real results be if I extend this change for a while longer? If I really feel that I don't need to change because I feel right and the people around me are wrong? What if I think I'm different? What if my values ​​are different? What if I think differently? What if no one really understands me?

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The first big factor that we need to discuss in order to assess our behaviors in order to know at what level we are with ourselves, is to identify what type of sabotage you use to justify your failures. This is the first step in my analysis as a Coach. What are you doing repeatedly to stay in the same place and not get different results.

Victimization arises naturally among most human beings. It is always much more convenient to blame the world, family, husband, children, life, than yourself for your choices. The realization that we are responsible for our own actions, self-responsibility for failure itself hurts, and blaming yourself becomes an unnecessary act when we can freely distribute the blame to the world. We blame everyone and forget that we have the freedom to choose our own paths, to separate ourselves from abusive marriages, to study to acquire more knowledge, to try to undertake and find new sources of income, to take care of our food so that we do not get sick , among many other things.

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Now, at this point you are probably already grumbling. Do you know why? Because your LIMITING BELIEFS , the ones I talked about above are warning you of what you don't want to do. Remember? You will prefer to justify, make other choices, argue and even fight to not have to accept that until you understand that it is preventing the natural course of the evolution of your own essence, you will be affixed to the old patterns of emotional blocks that were imposed on you. in the past, and will not thrive in your life. It will not change your affective life, your relationships will continue with the same results as always, your construction of marriage will always have the same previous basis with the same support materials that they had, consequently you will not know how to endure any challenges, because people who they do not evolve, they do not transform, they do not shape or adapt, they do not become capable of surviving without going into deep crises. The constant training of adaptation to changes, makes us more malleable and consequently more prepared for the big changes when they happen in our lives. The exercise of seeing the other, is in fact the most difficult of all. Getting out of yourself and imagining yourself living what the other would feel is an act of deep awareness and inner growth. As for the finances, neither will there be any major changes, the way in which you see money, the new world of finance today, the monetary evolution of the world, the new global trends, how we should update ourselves in the market, what are the great new strategies .... If you don't have any kind of interest and decide to act poor, or want to justify your disinterest, because it becomes easier to omit than to try to change your beliefs, your life will be one great waste.

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As long as you are stuck with your BELIEFS because you think you are unique and special, the result will be 1, 2, 5 or 10 years from now if you find yourself alone, without money and regretting why nothing has significantly changed for you.